As in everything in India today, the old co-exists effortlessly with the new….

April 19th, 2007 by kaushambi

we forget (a riduculously larger bulk) poor also co-exist with the rich!

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/04/18/dining/18indi.html?ex=1334721600&en=b00846c0b07a4316&ei=5124&partner=permalink&exprod=permalink

Yes such articles get me all excited about Indian food especially when Im getting closer to making a trip home - but being born and raised in Mumbai, a city of continuous contrasts bombarding your eyes, its kind of hard to consume chaat with champagne in a trendy restaurant (my secondary meal - a luxury i am fortunate to enjoy while enjoying conversation with an equally fortunate friend) and expect laws to enforce depriving (often unguaranteed) primary meals to a disproportionately large unfortunate populace…

But such situations are very familiar to me in the Indian scenario - its always been easy for policy makers to overlook that what is a luxury for one strata of the society, is a necessity for survival for another…i cant imagine what the waged laborers or even the homeless would eat if there was no street vendoring! and i think i would worry more if the same food was cooked elsewhere (god knows when) and not before their eyes..

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The Namesake

March 18th, 2007 by kaushambi

If I may key down my thoughts on this movie for its cinematic value without reading the book:

Its interesting how a co-commuter on a train influences a young man to break out of his box about living life in a post-tragic situation, to venture into a new world…

While his struggles in the occidental world as a young man are unaccounted, the story kicks off with his return with a young bride from his homeland - portraying a very traditional (and yet liberal) Indian marital relationship amidst modern day NY.

As this happy nuptial leads to the first generation immigrant parent struggle while raising their two children in this new world, the story gains intensity to show negotiations (almost one-sided until a second tragedy) over differences in Indian and western socio-cultural values/lifestyle amongst episodes of parental compromises and ignorance of their growing progeny in the western world.

While the main protagonist is the son Gogol (truly unhappy with the phonetics and origins of his name gifted by his father), there are little stories for each of these four family members which add upto the movie – episodes in native and foreign circumstances which slowly facilitate a better awareness and rapport inspite of the socio-cultural gaps (note, which are not expected to be bridged) amongst the four, peaking with a very tragic family moment.

With subtle humor, articulate character themes and seriatim events set in very appropriate visual/spatial contexts, I think she’s made an awesome movie addressing some very key issues in the lives of first generation parents and their children in foreign cultures (on a more serious note than movies like Monsoon Wedding or Bend It Like Beckham which convey similar messages besides other larger themes?).

Ranging from geographic nostalgia, familial estrangement, denial and acceptance of native roots, winning and losing in love to adaptive self renewal are a range of personal struggles the characters live through the story – acted out by a really good mix of expert and novice star cast (you bet Kal Penn rocks!)

Wondering what Jhumpa Lahiri was out to convey through the book - felt like there is a simultaneous or larger theme but could not pinpoint it…

All in all a fun movie with good music and a very good range of elements to describe Calcutta but would hope for more emphatic photography.

A must watch!

http://movies2.nytimes.com/2007/03/09/movies/09name.html?ex=1189915200&en=1b8d6d1dba8fb02e&ei=5087&mkt=movieslink3

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Me Renewed…

March 11th, 2007 by kaushambi

After a very long void of painting in my life over the last couple of years (with a few intermittent episodes) I finally returned to painting this afternoon..at Dana’s studio in DC.

I came across her online, and immediately knew her work environment and attitude would be just right for someone for me to ..

OOPSSS! this seems to auto-publish..but laterzzz..

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And a Padma Shri is awarded for…

March 4th, 2007 by kaushambi

yeah - cooking!

I was really happy last week when a mail got auto-delivered in my gmail-box announcing Tarla Dalal being awarded the Padma Shri award - 4th in the hierarchy of civilian awards in India…

As I was going through the list, i realized its rare to receive this award for something as publicly unappreciated as domestic cooking..and the likes of my brother still shrug off this gesture as unworthy of a self-made chef who (agreed has solely been a profit-making entity) has managed to perfect and publish global cuisines in the realm of vegetarian cooking in multi-languages…

I have been her fan over the last 3 -1/2 years of my life, ever since I moved away from home to the US - primarily surviving on her books (with no regrets for all those times back home when my mom tried to con me into the kitchen with her and I sneaked out)…I have about 10 books authored by her and they have been great companions in quick daily meals and whimsical elaborate preparations !

For all vegetarian foodies out there - yes there is plenty to eat in every cuisine! And if you enjoy cooking too, you must visit www.tarladalal.com - you will be amazed to see the breadth and depth of global cultures she has covered.  Moreover i also see her as an amateur dietician - often addressing nutrient values especially in her "health series"…

So thats my personal tribute to her in my own small way - just thought ill key in after enjoying some yummy food from her book this evening…

p.s.  If ure a true gujju, u must try her instant dhokla packet - yes she has also ventured into packaged instant foods!

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The lil insula….

February 6th, 2007 by kaushambi

Link: QuickPost | Friendster Blogs.

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/02/06/health/psychology/06brain.html?ex=157680000&en=cee803ea651d08e4&ei=5124&partner=permalink&exprod=permalink

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The Orkutian Wave…

October 6th, 2006 by kaushambi

While I enjoy my more slow pace virtual social life on friendster, there is this new-found simultaneous attraction and distraction in my daily routine - orkut.

Trust me, it feels like a wave - not just a website…and alot more desi if I may take the liberty to use the term (in a very non-desi-ist way as Anuj would call it).

It bothers me that I log on every single day just like my inbox - but there are always pleasant surprises (i think ive been pretty good at warning the unpleasant ones away)…friends scrapping from elementary, middle, high (ahh…hell with the hierarchy - it never mattered - life was all about this one gigantic institution with 299 other kids and their siblings adding to a total of 3000 - yes JNS!). Then colleagues from the 2 most trying years of "college" where one is forced to proclaim one’s professional calling at the sweet age of 16!… and then …your undergraduate buddies you learn to grow with - at home away from home (guaranteed if you are an architecture student).

So here I am - 3 years away from home and re-discovering buddies, friends, acquaintances and some known strangers on the WWW. What we all seem to have in common is a recent addiction - to go online, snoop around, seek out each other and SCRAP!

What’s amazing is the ease with which we reconnect even after 10 plus years. I can still feel the same warmth - just through a few typed characters. I guess time never dissolves relationships, irrespective of whence they started and to what degree they were relished.

Just wondering…if Will Mitchell (noted author of E-topia and ex-Dean of SA+P at

77 Mass Ave

) were to experience this crazy online orkutian wave, would he rather reverse his thesis on the virtualization of social life? If I could randomly reconnect with my long married and now pregnant high-school friends after 12 years, and sip a home-made apple martini with their super-hyper puppy pawing away at me (persistently challenging the soothing effect of my drink) over a decade’s worth of life-catching-up conversation in the middle of nowhere VA, I really wouldn’t worry about the impact of internet in the quality of inter-personal relationships.

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Henri Rousseau: Jungles in Paris

September 28th, 2006 by kaushambi

I finally made it to the NGA today..yes IM Pei’s east wing to view the much awaited Henri Rousseaus in a wonderful space doing justice to fascinating permanent and transient exhibits.

I think I first saw his work as a child in a book, back home at varsha aunty’s place - not holding much meaning then, except that the artist was very expressive with vegetation and animal life amidst a forest.

But today it meant more - ofcourse the short film, historic context, the notes accompanying the paintings, critics’ comments and then my very own palimpsest of information, recollections, comparisons and thoughts. (and hats off to nga curators for superb signage graphics and precise minimal texts - i was quite impressed by the degree of "less is more" attitude in this show)

Im trying to recall his works, and as usual I always come back with a few that stay with me. What strikes you most about his work is the variety, colors and boldness of vegetation and foliage in the jungles. There are animals in action (well defined and animated), sometimes human beings (more generic and lack detail - no indication of being french, infact i was in splits when i saw a native indian unless im missing out on some history here!), or humans indicating their primate stage or animals shown in human-like actions…but they are all scaled down to allow the flora-fauna to dominate the landscape.

And whats important then is that he’s not a frequent visitor to the forests, but he lets his imagination run wild at the jardin des plantes in paris. Among the urban anxieties of then modernizing paris, he seeks out and imagines the "exotic" …taking clues from tropical species in the greenhouses and the animals exported from the versailles zoo to paris during the french revolution.

Each painting is a concoction - realistic in subject and unrealistic in technique.He does not stress on the sense of perspective - its all in layers and very 2d. (i realized when Margritte does that in Carte Blanche, its to trick the viewer. but this guy is simplistic in his intentions)

I think it was the finale of the show and his life that appealed to me most - The Dream. Its quite bizzare - amongst the nocturnal wilderness, in the foreground you see a reclining nude female on a sofa! and then around her are animals curiously looking at her or out at you!…a snake gliding through, an elephant in the background (just grey enough to merge with the foliage), birds and …then the moon to reinforce the night. What adds further meaning to the painting, is a dark figure playing a musette to the woman to enhance her experience…and the artist accompanies his work with a poem that adds music into the night.

I did sense similarities now and then between Rousseau’s work and Indian miniatures, which often address the same spectrum of subjects and accessories. They hold high value for their intricacy of the human body, definition of their surroundings, and the unchallenged beauty of indigenous vegetable dye colors. They have stories to unfold, but somehow I feel they are just too static and lifeless -  as if meant to be framed as an object, and not for a viewer to be consumed into the landscape. (maybe they were meant to be that way, at that time in the mughul era..)

So that was a refreshing day…some food for the eyes and thought.

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Leaving Dupont…

September 7th, 2006 by kaushambi

So.. it feels like it was my last walk in my neighborhood today - reinforcing my feel of the historic facades, tree-lined brick-paved sidewalks, colorful well pruned planters, curb-cuts, gorgeous dogs with equally handsome owners, bikers…yes im a die-hard for detail when it comes to street-life (and my profession only encourages my trained eye, ever-thirsty to build visual memories). And its not just the softscape and hardscape, its also about leaving a very lively neighborhood with great restaurants, cafes, bars, bookstores - every aspect of life for someone who cherishes and thrives on urban density and diversity.

I experienced a very sad moment eating my favorite tofu sandwich at cake love this afternoon while relishing a couple of yummy samplers (which i never fail to indulge on inspite of holding myself off from the delicious pastry array..) - and then eyeing all the familiar store signs on the way back, smiling to myself as i passed by chi cha, frowning at the meany convenience store owner and cautiously plotting my route back home so i may pass by my favorite row-homes again. yes i missed the middle eastern cafe where i used to laze on the www with free wi-fi and iced tea before i succumbed to comcast.

ah well - its not that far….. across the river - but its just another scale which i have schemed to avoid in this country - so far.

so here is cheers to leaving behind city-life in exchange of a inhuman commute! and as nuby likes to exclaim…"oh the city gal is moving to VA?"

but hey…u know where ill be on weekends!

(p.s. if u happen to call me, be prepared for some crabbiness!)

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Reconnecting with ASHA

July 15th, 2006 by kaushambi

Its been a couple of months since the cold winter sunday afternoon I spent at the Rittenhouse Square - not lazing or running, but indulging in some very garss-root level fund-raising. To be crude and precise - begging.

Ill never get over it - I was quite amazed I got down to doing it. It was pretty hard, but at some point myself and some of the ASHA members decided to overthrow our inhibitions and just do it…we were quite sick of dealing with all the institutional/organizational barriers to get money for one of the most devastating calamties of this century - the tsunami victims. Soumya was dead bent on getting something for the villages in South India, and pushy enough to get the rest of us acting on it. Yup we managed to collect a couple of hundred bucks in a few hours. I think I managed 500ish - was quite a task! I dont think I have ever been so strategic, articulate and convincing.

I was just never the kind - till then.

But that was a good beginning…I remember we made news among other ASHA chapters for the aforesaid act, and then competing amongst each other for $$ collections. An intense act slowly fizzled out to static collection boxes at Samosa, Passage to India and the likes. The $$ rose, but our involvement waned.

Today, thanks to Swapna I revisited ASHA in DC. It was a light evening - potluck and socializing. Amongst an array of yummy food, I was amazed with the number of Bombayites I met (and how do u get over running into a good high-school friend’s cousin ?). Yes, the world only gets smaller.

So that was my day - domestic errands, few hours on the www, concocting italian ingredients with a thai dressing, bombay gossip and a very inspirational talk by Jim Winters to get back with ASHA.

Laters…

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A new family member !!!!!!

July 14th, 2006 by kaushambi

A lovely baby boy born…cant wait to see my new brother (or should I just call him a newphew?)…my family is hard to understand…

anyways…that means one more trip to my favorite Bay Area!

Something to plan over the uneventful upcoming weekend…well i overdid the last one - so that works just fine. The upsetting WC and then the gypsy kings at wolf trap and saturday night frolicing that DC never seems to dry out of! And I never seem to have enough!

Yah life in DC is alot more eventful (hehe..not just socially) than Philly - but I still love Philly more.

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